She Said "Hey" — What to Say Back (5 Responses That Work)
The most common first message on dating apps. Most guys respond with 'hey' back — and the conversation dies before it starts.
WHAT TO SAY
"hey! so between your third photo and your bio I have questions 👀"
curiousCreates intrigue, shows you read her profile
"the hey is noted. now tell me something that'll make me put my phone down for you"
challengingPlayful, flips the script, high confidence
"hey hey. so what's the deal with the hiking photos — real mountains or instagram angles?"
teasingSpecific, funny, easy to respond to
WHAT NOT TO DO
Don't just say 'hey' back — it goes nowhere
Don't call out her lazy opener — it kills the vibe
Don't write a paragraph — match her energy, then add 20%
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